"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dream Wingman/Woman

Dream Wingman/Woman

  • Wingman - Friend

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • Wingman - Public Figure

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • Wingwoman - Friend

    Votes: 1 20.0%
  • Wingwoman - Public Figure

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    5

novaknight

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Who would be your dream wingman? Describe him/her. It can be someone real, or an imaginary person.

And for the poll, would you rather have a wingwoman or man. I'm making this thread off of curiosity
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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novaknight

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My dream wingman would be Mystery. I love his deep, attractive, confident voice that just draws women to him. He looks mad creepy, but its peacocking, I would get why. And I would like someone to teach me how to peacock/dress well.

Many people hate on him but hey, he gets what he wants: lays.
 

Zarky

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Heh, went out once about a decade ago after shooting a short film and hung out with, of all people, Fred Savage, in a bar in LA. Some random chick chatted him up and when he decided he didn't want to go home with her she turned to to me and said, essentially, "Well how about you then?" I didn't really want to either (she wasn't unattractive--but I was taken by surprise), so she just walked off into the night. Odd. Apparently, even though his child-acting star had faded by that time, that sort of thing still happened to him.

So I'd like a male celeb to be my wingman. He'd dish the women over to me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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