"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dream Wingman/Woman

Dream Wingman/Woman

  • Wingman - Friend

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • Wingman - Public Figure

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • Wingwoman - Friend

    Votes: 1 20.0%
  • Wingwoman - Public Figure

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    5

novaknight

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Who would be your dream wingman? Describe him/her. It can be someone real, or an imaginary person.

And for the poll, would you rather have a wingwoman or man. I'm making this thread off of curiosity
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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novaknight

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My dream wingman would be Mystery. I love his deep, attractive, confident voice that just draws women to him. He looks mad creepy, but its peacocking, I would get why. And I would like someone to teach me how to peacock/dress well.

Many people hate on him but hey, he gets what he wants: lays.
 

Zarky

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Heh, went out once about a decade ago after shooting a short film and hung out with, of all people, Fred Savage, in a bar in LA. Some random chick chatted him up and when he decided he didn't want to go home with her she turned to to me and said, essentially, "Well how about you then?" I didn't really want to either (she wasn't unattractive--but I was taken by surprise), so she just walked off into the night. Odd. Apparently, even though his child-acting star had faded by that time, that sort of thing still happened to him.

So I'd like a male celeb to be my wingman. He'd dish the women over to me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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