She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That's real classy. Very smooth too.TheNastyPlayer said:If she rejects you just tell her she tasted like sardines really loud and make sure her friends are listening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I recommend the "or we can go out bit". It might feel good to have her come watch you play, but think about it, what are u gonna do then? Why have her sitting around doing nothing for an hour or two watching something she probably knows next to nothing about and risking her getting bored or whatever. (Or you have a crappy game and she was thinking you're some star and now u let her down or something like that.) Just go do something with her first, make a couple of moves on her trying to get down her pants, and then she can come watch you play all she wants.sometime you can come to my soccer match(because I told her 2 come watch) or we can go out.