"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dream of Lemon

Ladiesssman

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I was having dinner with a girl on a date. We were eating fish at Asian restaurant. I squeezed the lemon on too the fish. Then she tells me that when she sees me squeezing lemon, it reminds her of her dream. Last night she dreamed of having lemon.

Does dreaming of eating lemon mean anything sexually???

I'm just wondering if such dream have any sexual maning.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Ladiesssman
I was having dinner with a girl on a date. We were eating fish at Asian restaurant. I squeezed the lemon on too the fish. Then she tells me that when she sees me squeezing lemon, it reminds her of her dream. Last night she dreamed of having lemon.

Does dreaming of eating lemon mean anything sexually???

I'm just wondering if such dream have any sexual maning.
What does dreaming of a lemon mean

:rolleyes:
 

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Stop over-analyzing about nothing. Chances are, you wont see that girl posting on a forum asking other women if you squezing that lemon meant you were interested in her sexually. She could care less about the lemon or what it means, as should you.
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
Stop over-analyzing about nothing. Chances are, you wont see that girl posting on a forum asking other women if you squezing that lemon meant you were interested in her sexually. She could care less about the lemon or what it means, as should you.

Ladiesssman said:

Then she tells me that when she sees me squeezing lemon, it reminds her of her dream. Last night she dreamed of having lemon.
MindOverMatter: What you are saying IS right, she might of just said it because it was true, but meant nothing to her... But it could also have a "hidden" meaning.... but you are right M.O.M... this shouldnt be anything to really care about.

Ladiesssman: If you really are wondering if there WAS a "hidden meaning" in what she said then you could say something to her along the lines of " When we were sitting at the table the other night and u said to me that u dreamt of a lemon when u saw me squeeze the lemon... do you think that it means anything?" My guess is that her answer will be something along the lines of " I dont know, i was just telling you cause it was wierd dreaming about it and then seeing u squeezing a lemon" ... So i dont think that you will get the "truth" out of her IF she DID have this "hidden meaning"... so the best thing to do is just forget about it and not worry about it, cause its really not something you should be worrying about;)

Laterz...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Man! you guys are not helping.

But I like aquita's link. I know now that lemon means bitterness of life but good in the long run. Hmmm that's interesting. But I careless if that's what it means.

Thanks to all though for the response.
 
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