"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dream of Lemon

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I was having dinner with a girl on a date. We were eating fish at Asian restaurant. I squeezed the lemon on too the fish. Then she tells me that when she sees me squeezing lemon, it reminds her of her dream. Last night she dreamed of having lemon.

Does dreaming of eating lemon mean anything sexually???

I'm just wondering if such dream have any sexual maning.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Ladiesssman
I was having dinner with a girl on a date. We were eating fish at Asian restaurant. I squeezed the lemon on too the fish. Then she tells me that when she sees me squeezing lemon, it reminds her of her dream. Last night she dreamed of having lemon.

Does dreaming of eating lemon mean anything sexually???

I'm just wondering if such dream have any sexual maning.
What does dreaming of a lemon mean

:rolleyes:
 

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Stop over-analyzing about nothing. Chances are, you wont see that girl posting on a forum asking other women if you squezing that lemon meant you were interested in her sexually. She could care less about the lemon or what it means, as should you.
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
Stop over-analyzing about nothing. Chances are, you wont see that girl posting on a forum asking other women if you squezing that lemon meant you were interested in her sexually. She could care less about the lemon or what it means, as should you.

Ladiesssman said:

Then she tells me that when she sees me squeezing lemon, it reminds her of her dream. Last night she dreamed of having lemon.
MindOverMatter: What you are saying IS right, she might of just said it because it was true, but meant nothing to her... But it could also have a "hidden" meaning.... but you are right M.O.M... this shouldnt be anything to really care about.

Ladiesssman: If you really are wondering if there WAS a "hidden meaning" in what she said then you could say something to her along the lines of " When we were sitting at the table the other night and u said to me that u dreamt of a lemon when u saw me squeeze the lemon... do you think that it means anything?" My guess is that her answer will be something along the lines of " I dont know, i was just telling you cause it was wierd dreaming about it and then seeing u squeezing a lemon" ... So i dont think that you will get the "truth" out of her IF she DID have this "hidden meaning"... so the best thing to do is just forget about it and not worry about it, cause its really not something you should be worrying about;)

Laterz...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Man! you guys are not helping.

But I like aquita's link. I know now that lemon means bitterness of life but good in the long run. Hmmm that's interesting. But I careless if that's what it means.

Thanks to all though for the response.
 
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