Drawing the line

[Matty]

I've been having a problem with being a tad bit too jerk-ish with women. A girl today told me that she's awaits the day that I say something nice to her, because I always appear to have a derogatory comment. (Keep in mind she said it in a some what flirty manner) I then proceeded to try and hand her a pen and paper so she's able to make note of when this miraculous event does occur. For example, a couple days ago a girl came to me complaining about her stomach, I obliged her and made an effort to ask about it later, but when it came up, I froze and threw out another jerky retort.

Her: Yeah, it's okay, I think I'll live.
Me: That's unfortunate.

Where do I draw the line with comments such as these? Would a better approach have been a hug and something a bit more "sensitive"?

 

[canadianmetalhead]

...just dont be an ass. the key to the whole ****y and funny thing is to be funny. that is by far the most important part

 

[verysuave]

i used to be like you. But then i am now borderline but don't cross it.. Once in a while if she's really a b1tch and likes to play rough games. You just have to be a gooood tease

hb: i wait for the day
you: maybe an hour from now. maybe tomorrow. You never now

somewhere along those lines

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Another experiment in C/F gone amok. To add to what Canadianmetalhead said, the key is to be funny not only to yourself but to the woman too!!! If your style of humor is based solely on sarcasm your best bet is to try another approach altogether, constant sarcasm ends up sucking the life out of everyone around you.