"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Drama or not?

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Think o specificf examples to put women on an emotionall roller coaster ride (NOT DRAMA maybe partial drama)?


1. Live up to promises then break them?
ex. you and your gf plan on watching a movie then all the sudden, a good friend that you havent seen for years tells you he wants to see you the same night you and your girl are gona see a movie. So, instead of spending time with her , you then decide to go see your friend because theres a good logical reason why you should see him.

*so, would this be drama or creating push and pull?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think the "hot and cold" method is better than drama. It seems to work very well for me. One minute shower them with affection, the next, pull back and be aloof.

I don't know exactly why this works with women, but it does.
 
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DjNoob....you really do NOT have to even worry about this. There are a lot more things a guy has to focus on and work on when they are trying to find their way in having lasting involvements with women...and this is seriously a waste of your time.

All you really need to do is be a man and the woman will react by being a woman. It's actually very simple.

Men have been conditioned by society to behave like girly men...until you undo that damage and take on the role of a man it doesn't matter how many of the hints or techniques here you try...it's not going to get you anywhere.

Learn to BE A MAN...that's ALL you really need to do.
 
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ok wild, now, can you please provide at least one example of your definition of "BE
A MAN" besides the not being to clingy etc." part
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you just got a ****ing thread with 99 posts....it being closed should give you a hint that this drama thing has been discussed enough already...
 
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ok, this "Be a man" i think doesn't apply to my age yet since im in my mid 20s...


Wild, arent you in your 40s from what Ive read ..so maybe you're applying this "Be a man/nice guy"persona to males around their early 30s (the ones who are ready to settle down)

It seems like "the nice guy attitude" which girls around my age are not as attracted to compared to the the jerk/fun type guy


Im asking this because I'm trying pin point exactly the kind of men most women are attracted to within my age range
 
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Originally posted by undesputable
you just got a ****ing thread with 99 posts....it being closed should give you a hint that this drama thing has been discussed enough already...
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ill keep posting and asking question if i wanted to. As long as there are people willing to show interests to my posts then the show will go on
 
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No, thats what a loser does. Sounds like behaviour that'd go on with an AW. You can push and pull, but if you feel like you need to make drama that means you are desperate for any feelings from her whatsoever.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I do not understand how creating drama in an otherwise drama-free relationship is a good thing.

I would LOVE to find a girl who was 100% drama free. Drama just causes anxiety and pent-up rage. It does not "make things interesting" as you so put.

Here is some advice to live by:

IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS NOT MAKING YOUR LIFE BETTER, YOU SHOULD NOT BE IN IT!

(man, I should post in the tips section more)

If you are setting out to create emotional turmoil just to keep the attention of a girl, then you are acting the role of a dependent AFC who needs conflict to remind him that he is still in a relationship with a girl he thinks is above him.

And to answer your original post, breaking promises doesn't create drama. What it does is diminish your integrity and make you look like a fool.
 
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djnoob i seriously hate your posts. Its just the same old questions again and again. Youre looking for an answer but you cant find it, can you? Ill tell you now you aint going to find the answer. Figure out your flaws and work on them. Self-Improvement. Fuk worrying about whether it works THAT way or THIS way.

that is all. bye.
 
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