Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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DR x 3 (weekend in Saigon)

Leporello

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As advertised:

Date 1

Met a girl I'd seen twice before at the jazz club. We talked a little and then listened to the music for a couple of hours. It was kind of strange though; she'd let me feel her up (including her tits) and kiss her, but not on the mouth. Is that weird?

Date 2:

Saturday afternoon at a coffee shop. Absolute disaster. I was meeting this girl for a 'date' for the first time, and imagine the awkwardness of a first date combined with poor language skills on both sides. After half an hour I just wanted to get outta there.

Date 3:

Just ended a few minutes ago. I met this girl at a wine bar I'd been to before. We got some wine and chatted a bit, then went for a walk around the area. Without prompting she held my hand and talked about what we could do on our next date. then she was supposed to drive me home on her motorbike, but since I forgot my helmet and we'd been drinking, we decided that wasn't a good idea (anyone who knows Saigon traffic will agree with me).

So 2 outta 3 ain't bad. Though I seriously need some better first-date ideas; this coffee shop thing is getting old.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Leporello said:
As advertised:

Date 1

Met a girl I'd seen twice before at the jazz club. We talked a little and then listened to the music for a couple of hours. It was kind of strange though; she'd let me feel her up (including her tits) and kiss her, but not on the mouth. Is that weird?

Date 2:

Saturday afternoon at a coffee shop. Absolute disaster. I was meeting this girl for a 'date' for the first time, and imagine the awkwardness of a first date combined with poor language skills on both sides. After half an hour I just wanted to get outta there.

Date 3:

Just ended a few minutes ago. I met this girl at a wine bar I'd been to before. We got some wine and chatted a bit, then went for a walk around the area. Without prompting she held my hand and talked about what we could do on our next date. then she was supposed to drive me home on her motorbike, but since I forgot my helmet and we'd been drinking, we decided that wasn't a good idea (anyone who knows Saigon traffic will agree with me).

So 2 outta 3 ain't bad. Though I seriously need some better first-date ideas; this coffee shop thing is getting old.
youre in Saigon now?? cool sh!t man. Living abroad must be fun!
 

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Ken785 said:
youre in Saigon now?? cool sh!t man. Living abroad must be fun!
Sometimes, though living in the Third World has its own challenges.

Anyway, I'm still trying to figure out Vietnamese culture...we'll see how it goes.
 
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