"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DR x 3 (weekend in Saigon)

Leporello

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As advertised:

Date 1

Met a girl I'd seen twice before at the jazz club. We talked a little and then listened to the music for a couple of hours. It was kind of strange though; she'd let me feel her up (including her tits) and kiss her, but not on the mouth. Is that weird?

Date 2:

Saturday afternoon at a coffee shop. Absolute disaster. I was meeting this girl for a 'date' for the first time, and imagine the awkwardness of a first date combined with poor language skills on both sides. After half an hour I just wanted to get outta there.

Date 3:

Just ended a few minutes ago. I met this girl at a wine bar I'd been to before. We got some wine and chatted a bit, then went for a walk around the area. Without prompting she held my hand and talked about what we could do on our next date. then she was supposed to drive me home on her motorbike, but since I forgot my helmet and we'd been drinking, we decided that wasn't a good idea (anyone who knows Saigon traffic will agree with me).

So 2 outta 3 ain't bad. Though I seriously need some better first-date ideas; this coffee shop thing is getting old.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Leporello said:
As advertised:

Date 1

Met a girl I'd seen twice before at the jazz club. We talked a little and then listened to the music for a couple of hours. It was kind of strange though; she'd let me feel her up (including her tits) and kiss her, but not on the mouth. Is that weird?

Date 2:

Saturday afternoon at a coffee shop. Absolute disaster. I was meeting this girl for a 'date' for the first time, and imagine the awkwardness of a first date combined with poor language skills on both sides. After half an hour I just wanted to get outta there.

Date 3:

Just ended a few minutes ago. I met this girl at a wine bar I'd been to before. We got some wine and chatted a bit, then went for a walk around the area. Without prompting she held my hand and talked about what we could do on our next date. then she was supposed to drive me home on her motorbike, but since I forgot my helmet and we'd been drinking, we decided that wasn't a good idea (anyone who knows Saigon traffic will agree with me).

So 2 outta 3 ain't bad. Though I seriously need some better first-date ideas; this coffee shop thing is getting old.
youre in Saigon now?? cool sh!t man. Living abroad must be fun!
 

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Ken785 said:
youre in Saigon now?? cool sh!t man. Living abroad must be fun!
Sometimes, though living in the Third World has its own challenges.

Anyway, I'm still trying to figure out Vietnamese culture...we'll see how it goes.
 
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