Heya guys, havent done one of these before, here goes...enjoy..!!
When: Wednesday 19th
Time: 12:00pm - 5:00pm
Where: Met at the mall --> bowling --> bummed about!
Well I was running abit late, but met her in the mall around 12. We chatted, went to the book shop because i've got a $60 voucher to use there, then went to a mens shop to look for a tshirt for me :yes:
After that, I said she can take me to one of her 'girley' shops!! And she took me to a red cross shop (second hand clothing) which suprised me abit, however i'm fine with it cause' she looks respectable.
So we went there, then walked upto KFC and got some lunch, then went across the road to the bowling alley :woo:
(If i've got 1 word of advice for guys who are planning a first date, make sure you do an ACTION DATE!!!)
So we got a lane, and started playing (we both hadnt been bowling for about 3 years lol) and had some fun, I layed massive kino on her shower her the 'right' technique
hehe. She was loving it, giving me great eye contact and even initiation touching alot of the time, which is always a good level to gauge her interest!
We played 2 games then played some air hockey, got a drink and some food, sit and chatted.
I asked her "tell me something about yourself that not many people know" and she told me something about how she likes bushwalking, she asked me the same and I told her something about me, then I asked her to go again, and she goes "mmm ehh ..... nah dont worry" and I didnt want to pursue the matter, anyway later she told me what it was...
Turns out her father is an alcoholic I didn't really know what to do when she said this, so I just acted cool and calm, and just started talking about something else. Gotta say it was quite an awkward position for abit eheh.
Anyway after that we stood outside the front of the bowing alley, talked (cause it was raining) and then when it stopped raining for abit, walked to the 4ways (another shopping place) and just walked about. We ended up sitting inside a cafe` on comfy seats her on 1 side, me on the other. Anyway my legs where on the outside of hers, and I was holding both her hands. So we chatted and she was doing something on her phone, and I asked can I have a look at the pics on there, she was abit apprehensive at first but then let me...there were a few of her ex bf of them (you will understand if you read my previous thread on these forums) at which point I asked "whos this"? and she deleted some of them !! hehe.
Then we went walking around for abit, and ended up standing in abit of an arcade bit (only place that was warm) and I got her to txt her mum to come pick her up.
We talked about heaps of stuff, and we were touching eachother almost all the time (hands, chest, hugs, her resting her neck on me etc.) and anyway, we were there for awhile (prob 30-40mins I think) and then at one point I went to kiss her, made contact with her lips and just kinda held it in that position for awhile (lol this is kinda hard to explain so bear with me!) so it wasnt really a kiss..she wasn't up to do it...yet anyway
Then the arcade bit we were standing in shut, and we moved under the front of a fast food chicken shop. I got a txt from mum saying she was ready to pick me up (I dont have my liscense yet) so anyway I grabbed her hands and said something about how fun bowling was, looked into her eyes, pulled her closer...was abit aprehensive to go for the kiss again, but I did! and this time she was keen, and kissed back so that worked out well!!
After that I ran in the rain to where mum was waiting, jumped in the car and came home!!
Well fellow DJ's, that's my date report, everything went good...I think!! Please feel free to give me some feedback etc. :yes:
However this is where i'd like experienced advice: what do I do about her dad. I mean, being an alcoholic is bad, and yea...i'm kinda not sure what to do - if I like the girl then I should go out with her, and her parents shouldn't be an issue, at least not for now? Eh this bit confuses me, so i'd like some feedback!
Oh and her and her 'ex bf' arnt going camping anymore :crackup: hehe
When: Wednesday 19th
Time: 12:00pm - 5:00pm
Where: Met at the mall --> bowling --> bummed about!
Well I was running abit late, but met her in the mall around 12. We chatted, went to the book shop because i've got a $60 voucher to use there, then went to a mens shop to look for a tshirt for me :yes:
After that, I said she can take me to one of her 'girley' shops!! And she took me to a red cross shop (second hand clothing) which suprised me abit, however i'm fine with it cause' she looks respectable.
So we went there, then walked upto KFC and got some lunch, then went across the road to the bowling alley :woo:
(If i've got 1 word of advice for guys who are planning a first date, make sure you do an ACTION DATE!!!)
So we got a lane, and started playing (we both hadnt been bowling for about 3 years lol) and had some fun, I layed massive kino on her shower her the 'right' technique
hehe. She was loving it, giving me great eye contact and even initiation touching alot of the time, which is always a good level to gauge her interest! We played 2 games then played some air hockey, got a drink and some food, sit and chatted.
I asked her "tell me something about yourself that not many people know" and she told me something about how she likes bushwalking, she asked me the same and I told her something about me, then I asked her to go again, and she goes "mmm ehh ..... nah dont worry" and I didnt want to pursue the matter, anyway later she told me what it was...
Turns out her father is an alcoholic
I didn't really know what to do when she said this, so I just acted cool and calm, and just started talking about something else. Gotta say it was quite an awkward position for abit eheh.Anyway after that we stood outside the front of the bowing alley, talked (cause it was raining) and then when it stopped raining for abit, walked to the 4ways (another shopping place) and just walked about. We ended up sitting inside a cafe` on comfy seats
her on 1 side, me on the other. Anyway my legs where on the outside of hers, and I was holding both her hands. So we chatted and she was doing something on her phone, and I asked can I have a look at the pics on there, she was abit apprehensive at first but then let me...there were a few of her ex bf of them (you will understand if you read my previous thread on these forums) at which point I asked "whos this"? and she deleted some of them !! hehe.Then we went walking around for abit, and ended up standing in abit of an arcade bit (only place that was warm) and I got her to txt her mum to come pick her up.
We talked about heaps of stuff, and we were touching eachother almost all the time (hands, chest, hugs, her resting her neck on me etc.) and anyway, we were there for awhile (prob 30-40mins I think) and then at one point I went to kiss her, made contact with her lips and just kinda held it in that position for awhile (lol this is kinda hard to explain so bear with me!) so it wasnt really a kiss..she wasn't up to do it...yet anyway
Then the arcade bit we were standing in shut, and we moved under the front of a fast food chicken shop. I got a txt from mum saying she was ready to pick me up (I dont have my liscense yet) so anyway I grabbed her hands and said something about how fun bowling was, looked into her eyes, pulled her closer...was abit aprehensive to go for the kiss again, but I did! and this time she was keen, and kissed back
so that worked out well!!After that I ran in the rain to where mum was waiting, jumped in the car and came home!!
Well fellow DJ's, that's my date report, everything went good...I think!! Please feel free to give me some feedback etc. :yes:
However this is where i'd like experienced advice: what do I do about her dad. I mean, being an alcoholic is bad, and yea...i'm kinda not sure what to do - if I like the girl then I should go out with her, and her parents shouldn't be an issue, at least not for now? Eh this bit confuses me, so i'd like some feedback!
Oh and her and her 'ex bf' arnt going camping anymore :crackup: hehe
