Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dr Beard, one organzied troll

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ethnomethodologist

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google search

query = "hall of fame" sosuave forum

There's a bunch of people out there who like to quote the "just be yourself" article on the main page, they give a link and all. There's even a site that IS a direct copy of the DJ bible as well.

If you are wondering if I enjoy the troll culture. I would be a liar if I said I wasn't interested in the psychology behind the concept. In fact, ethnomethodology was a term I stumbled across during a googlefest I had after querying about "breaching social norms", one of the first links I found was an old usenet discussion about becoming a better troll, and had a link behind the purpose of trolling to an ethnomethodists site.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ethnomethodologist

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Trolls generally like to stir up a commotion. Most trolls are out there to make people annoyed and get them excited about trivial things.

As is seen in sosuave, there are trolls in the community that are constructive at the same time. They establish false pretenses with negative postings and draw ire from advanced individuals set to prove them wrong.

A good troll can draw attention to a single topic for months on end before they are suspected. Others are busted the day they begin. The lame trolls are spammers, they are no use to the society and are immediately dispatched. More advanced trolls attempt to manipulate emotions and gain rapport within a community.

A troll is essentially an attention *****.
 

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what would a troll be in the 'real world'? the provacative sh*t talker? the loud mouth in the bars? just curious ,if they are attention getters online, i wonder how their outter personalities are..a troll sounds like someone along the lines of howard stern or maybe the likes or dennis leary, or any loud mouth comedian...if so , then aren't trolls (by nature), the ones that naturally the ones that break social norms by being soo annoying and not caring what people think? i always thought a troll was someone that just talks crap online...
 

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Tiger game?

The George McFly backshot is the best technique in existence!
 

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Damn... how many posts do we need ragging on Dr. Beard? Give the kid a break.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Troll or not, I love the guy!

Besides, he's no different to the many delusional losers who try to act like arrogant jerks to get women. If anything he serves as a good example of what not to do!
 

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DrBeard is this generation's Pook.
 

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