"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dr Beard, one organzied troll

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ethnomethodologist

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google search

query = "hall of fame" sosuave forum

There's a bunch of people out there who like to quote the "just be yourself" article on the main page, they give a link and all. There's even a site that IS a direct copy of the DJ bible as well.

If you are wondering if I enjoy the troll culture. I would be a liar if I said I wasn't interested in the psychology behind the concept. In fact, ethnomethodology was a term I stumbled across during a googlefest I had after querying about "breaching social norms", one of the first links I found was an old usenet discussion about becoming a better troll, and had a link behind the purpose of trolling to an ethnomethodists site.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Trolls generally like to stir up a commotion. Most trolls are out there to make people annoyed and get them excited about trivial things.

As is seen in sosuave, there are trolls in the community that are constructive at the same time. They establish false pretenses with negative postings and draw ire from advanced individuals set to prove them wrong.

A good troll can draw attention to a single topic for months on end before they are suspected. Others are busted the day they begin. The lame trolls are spammers, they are no use to the society and are immediately dispatched. More advanced trolls attempt to manipulate emotions and gain rapport within a community.

A troll is essentially an attention *****.
 

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what would a troll be in the 'real world'? the provacative sh*t talker? the loud mouth in the bars? just curious ,if they are attention getters online, i wonder how their outter personalities are..a troll sounds like someone along the lines of howard stern or maybe the likes or dennis leary, or any loud mouth comedian...if so , then aren't trolls (by nature), the ones that naturally the ones that break social norms by being soo annoying and not caring what people think? i always thought a troll was someone that just talks crap online...
 

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Tiger game?

The George McFly backshot is the best technique in existence!
 

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Damn... how many posts do we need ragging on Dr. Beard? Give the kid a break.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Troll or not, I love the guy!

Besides, he's no different to the many delusional losers who try to act like arrogant jerks to get women. If anything he serves as a good example of what not to do!
 

SamePendo

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DrBeard is this generation's Pook.
 

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