"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Downgrade From GF To F@ck Buddy?

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Hello guys, need your opinion on this matter!

If you are seeing a chick and you realise she is not right for you, but you have FEELINGS for her..

Is it even possible to downgrade a girl who you have feelings for, into a fuk buddy?

The more you have sex with her, i am sure you will develop more feelings for her..

Is it better to dump and move on? Or keep banging her?

Any experiences in this matter?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You can't downgrade a chick into a fck buddy as long as you have feelings for her. It's going to destroy you mentally.

Spin more plates during the downgrade and you might see some results.
 
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soulforge said:
Hello guys, need your opinion on this matter!

If you are seeing a chick and you realise she is not right for you, but you have FEELINGS for her..

Is it even possible to downgrade a girl who you have feelings for, into a fuk buddy?

The more you have sex with her, i am sure you will develop more feelings for her..

Is it better to dump and move on? Or keep banging her?

Any experiences in this matter?
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How would you feel if she was ****ing another guy?
 
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This mental conundrum which you are experiencing is steming from
a scarcity mentality.....

Making decisions based on sex will come back and rape you in ass.....if she
is poison, throw her back into the toxic waters from wence she came...

Think adundance. There is more puzzy out there than you could ever fvck in
one hundred life times......allow yourself the permission to take what's yours...

You're thinking sex......when what you really need (in addition) is to be "comfortable".
Comfort in knowing your plate's or your LTR's actions are screaming high interest level
and (relative) sanity. Comfort in knowing that her actions are treating you well.....

Now, it's (relatively) easy to get puzzy......but what at what price?? At the price of your own comfort? At the price of your own self-respect? At the price of your own peace of mind?

maybe it's time to put this shrew out to pasture...

why have cotton when you can have silk....
 
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cant do it bro...once you catch feels you better just cut her off. maybe a fuk for the road but thats is man...unless you can deal with knowing shes getting her holes pounded by other men. I couldnt deal with that personally.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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