"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Downgrade From GF To F@ck Buddy?

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soulforge

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Hello guys, need your opinion on this matter!

If you are seeing a chick and you realise she is not right for you, but you have FEELINGS for her..

Is it even possible to downgrade a girl who you have feelings for, into a fuk buddy?

The more you have sex with her, i am sure you will develop more feelings for her..

Is it better to dump and move on? Or keep banging her?

Any experiences in this matter?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You can't downgrade a chick into a fck buddy as long as you have feelings for her. It's going to destroy you mentally.

Spin more plates during the downgrade and you might see some results.
 
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soulforge said:
Hello guys, need your opinion on this matter!

If you are seeing a chick and you realise she is not right for you, but you have FEELINGS for her..

Is it even possible to downgrade a girl who you have feelings for, into a fuk buddy?

The more you have sex with her, i am sure you will develop more feelings for her..

Is it better to dump and move on? Or keep banging her?

Any experiences in this matter?
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How would you feel if she was ****ing another guy?
 
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This mental conundrum which you are experiencing is steming from
a scarcity mentality.....

Making decisions based on sex will come back and rape you in ass.....if she
is poison, throw her back into the toxic waters from wence she came...

Think adundance. There is more puzzy out there than you could ever fvck in
one hundred life times......allow yourself the permission to take what's yours...

You're thinking sex......when what you really need (in addition) is to be "comfortable".
Comfort in knowing your plate's or your LTR's actions are screaming high interest level
and (relative) sanity. Comfort in knowing that her actions are treating you well.....

Now, it's (relatively) easy to get puzzy......but what at what price?? At the price of your own comfort? At the price of your own self-respect? At the price of your own peace of mind?

maybe it's time to put this shrew out to pasture...

why have cotton when you can have silk....
 
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cant do it bro...once you catch feels you better just cut her off. maybe a fuk for the road but thats is man...unless you can deal with knowing shes getting her holes pounded by other men. I couldnt deal with that personally.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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