"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Down & Out: Kick me please

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Update: I get an email asking for help.

I reply "sure, whatsup?" and she tells me she is applying for a job in the country where her fiance is and needs help with doing the cover letter.

I said "yea thats easy. find attached a sample cover letter. just tailor to the job description."

She replies a day later "sorry i'm just replying now you won't believe how busy I have been. I messaged you on whatsapp last night. find attached the job description. thanks."

At this point I laugh because (1) Her fiance apparently sucks intellectually and can't help her. (2) She thinks I'm actually going to do the cover letter for her. (3) She send me that whatsapp message at 4AM.

So I replied. "replied to your whatsapp message. job sounds good. now just copy, paste and edit into the cover letter I sent you."

No communication since. LOL she really thinks she can use me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Forget it mate. You're officially a beta hanger.

I wouldn't even have sent the template.

By the sounds of it, she ain't too hot intellectually herself; hence they're made for each other. If she can't write her own cover note, she don't deserve the job.

Find a hot, intelligent woman, man. You deserve it. Are there any in Djibouti??
 
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a beta hanger? i dread that. didn't give her what she asked for and don't plan on contacting her. hopefully that will show her i don't play beta games unless there is a reward.

yea there are smart, intelligent women here. problem is the culture and religion really makes things difficult. i'm applying daily for better positions to get out of here.
 
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Excellent. Focus on your own prospects, rather than those of some broad who by the sounds of it is not going to reciprocate your efforts.

The beta-hanger comment was only figurative by the way. Sounds like you have the right mind set. Always difficult to leave old baggage behind though.

It's a dog-eat-dog world man. Forget anyone who doesn't reciprocate the same level of efforts that you put forth.
 
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