"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The girl I'm currently with, I knew from the minute I met her we would hit it off like crazy, the sex would be amazing and we would be down with each other, so I went for it. Regardless like a fool I was ****faced when I asked her and she said I need to talk to her when I'm sober, so I did. I was right with all my assumptions. She turned out being more like a down ass ***** than anything which I love. She lets me do what I do. We chill, we get along, we screw each other into oblivion, she takes care of me and I take care of her. She doesn't nag if she suspects something and if she gets pissed shes over it in a minute. I'm sure shes aware that I don't behave when I travel out of town but still is there. There is really no bad press to her name as I double check all chicks stories before I go into a relationship. (3 prior boyfriends @ 25). I know she'd do what she had to do for me if **** hit the fan. Maybe we will crash and burn or maybe we will continue this crazy ****. For real tho I think I found my Adriana La Cerva or Gemma Teller. Don't put her on a pedestal and she doesn't kiss my ass. Anyways, this seems like the best type of chick i've ever dated. Just a little short story for you all.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just stay on top of your game and don't get complacent. Like they say, pride goes before a fall.
 
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Judging by the title of this thread, I was fully expecting the OP to ask if he should fvck a chick with Down Syndrome. Lol.
 
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Greasy Pig said:
Judging by the title of this thread, I was fully expecting the OP to ask if he should fvck a chick with Down Syndrome. Lol.
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Bahahahahaha. Funny shvt!!!
 
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I swear to ****in god this broad must be stalking me on here. I post this **** yesterday and all of a sudden like a light switch. Comes to my house at 1230 last night breaking my balls about why don't I text her Good Morning and wanting to know why I didn't tell her I went out the other night. These birds must have like a sixth sense for this ****. Like a moron I fell into the trap and fought back ending with telling her to go **** herself and if she can't act normal than I can't do this with her. (Prolly because I was half asleep when she came over.) Any tips.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Greasy Pig said:
Judging by the title of this thread, I was fully expecting the OP to ask if he should fvck a chick with Down Syndrome. Lol.
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lol that's exactly what I thought too
 
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