"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Doubts about attractiveness during dates

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This keeps happening.

I'm on a date and its going well. I seem to like her but I have not made up my mind whether I'm completely attracted to her or not (despite the reality being that she's more than good enough), I guess I'm just weighing her up and seeing what she's like, mostly liking her and being attracted to her. Then she says something a bit stupid or mentions something I don't like or starts to talk about boring things and I switch off and I can't look at her with the same feelings of sexuality that I should be, the 'moment' is lost, 'chemistry' is lost and she starts to get nervous. I would like

What do other people do, if you don't fancy a girl ALL the way through the date? Do you kind of pretend you do all the way?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I just think about her body and taking her clothes off later and having my way with her, especially if she has very nice legs......

Really, you are thinking way too much...let your little head think some more and it will work itself out.
 
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zinc4 said:
I just think about her body and taking her clothes off later and having my way with her, especially if she has very nice legs......

Really, you are thinking way too much...let your little head think some more and it will work itself out.
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This, don't over think things in the early stages. Just stay cool and go wih the flow..


You won't know whether she is worth keeping until you've been with her about 10 times anyway, and that assumes you are banging her within the first 3, which you MUST be.
 
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Cheers peeps,
go with the flow, stay cool, more dates, bang her! then, make decisions
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Had this exact situation happen to me last night as a matter of fact. The girl is a solid 8 (I'm picky, my buddies say she's a 10, they're idiots), but a little ditsy, and doesn't quite have a big enough a$$ for my tastes - too much hot yoga or something. Don't get me wrong, she has a super tight body (which I like) I'm just a major a$$ man.

I had a couple thoughts of doubt enter my head during our bottle of wine, but decided to just ignore them and enjoy myself, and her company. After one date with her I'm thinking I'll take her out again...at least get the f close, then see how I'm feeling about her.
 
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