"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Doubting yourself

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quick advice needed/ survey

sometimes I will see an HB, approach within 3 seconds.... all is going well then all of a sudden after i get the number or especially if i get her facebook, sometimes even in mid conversation I look at the girl and think,

" holy ****, this girl is way too hot for me ! what am I thinking !?! there is no way I can get a girl this hot."
After this I usually stop talking to the girl and move on to a 6 or lower who I really have no motivation to call or do anything with and then its back to the drawing board. Anyone else have a similar problem?

This, coupled with the fact that I will see an obese guy walking with a HB6/7 and I will get really depressed. I look at myself in the miror and thing how ugly must I be if I cant pull a 7 or 8 and an obese guy is pulling that ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I pretty much have the same problem sometimes.
Especialy the part about seeing other guys walking around with chicks, since i don't get any play at all. I wonder "am I really that far down on the ladder?" I keep trying, but all signs keep pointing to yes, I am that far down, and I can't figure out why
 
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Self-Doubt is Self-Sabatoge...

Chicks can smell it from a mile away.

The second you get that
" holy ****, this girl is way too hot for me !
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feeling, she just realized it too.

Your dead in the water my friend, and it's all your fault.

Now, the question is... whatcha gonna do about it?
 
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