"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
btw i dont use a towel i have a highend broomstick ;P
i think im gonna train like 4times a week now....military press 3-4times a week....hmm i think goals are for the next half year.......
military press 6x55kg
rows 6x80kg
chinups 10x+15kg
deads 1x150kg
squats 6x100kg
getting the rotators more flexible
oh my god im so damn sleepless im gonna write a PM
come on dude take it low.....the goals will be very hard im sure....some injury here and there....but the main problem will be my diet because of school......im 8-11hours away from school everyday.....what shall i eat there i have no plan i just eat whatever comes in my hand and im always hungry......already known in class for eating all the time ............i want a slower metabolism !!!!!!!!!!
If they have a microwave oven at that place then you can do big cookings at the weekends and save in tupperware and bring every day.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
military press
5x35kg new record
4x35kg
4x35kg
chinups
6x new record
5x
4x
biceps curls sz
6x32kg new record
Lol.. yeah sounds like a good idea. Mixing whey before going to school shouldn't be no worry. You say it yourself, the protein is still there, and if it slows down in digestion its only a good thing. Anyway... I'll write you something if I come up with something you can do. =)
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
military press 6x35kg new record etc
chinups 7x new record etc
story that says more than 1000words: im overtired, workoutpartner doesnt answer phone, mate asks me to come over, i refuse and wait for workout partner to call....and he dont work out today but i still come over and ffell almost asleep but make new rreocrds!!!!!!!!!! now im going over to my other mate fvck school =D
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Wassup double?Where in germany are you from? I'm german, too, but I'll keep writing in english so nobody takes offense
Anyways..i just read you couldnt do chest? Is that true..if so what's the reason?
Plus I saw for military press you did like 3 sets with the same weight and the same number of reps (5*35 5*35 5*35). If you can do 3 sets with the exact same number of reps and weight that means you could do (much?) more reps for the first set. You should really choose a weight that allows you to do 6-8 reps for the first set and as soon as you can do 2 more reps (8-10) UP the weight. One of the things that have always helped me when I was wondering if I was growing or not was that I just sticked to my belief, that if I could increase the weight on my lifts over time, my muscles would have to grow and thus I would get visible results sooner or later if i sticked to it...and well it worked out pretty well tho during the first year or so i was constantly wondering if i had really gained muscle. But if you can keep increasing the weight on several lifts youll gain muscle. Some people will tell you strength and muscle are two different things but thats just not true. You can kind of influence the ratio of muscle/strength by using a different number of reps for your sets, but theres no way youre gonna get really muscular without being able to increase your lifts. Plus theres no way you can double or your benchpress or military press without getting a muscular chest/shoulders. Sometimes youll see guys who look less "strong" / muscular than you but who are able to bench or curl more weight, but that can be because they have shorter arms than you (I once read that ull have a very hard time becoming a good basketball player if ure small and you could have muscles like arnold schwarzenegger but have very long arms youll have a very hard time becoming a good weight lifter). Plus a lot of times you see guys who dont look overly muscular when wearing a shirt but when u see them without one (hope this doesnt sound too gay lol) u see they have definetly been working out those muscles. I know one guy who for his size has probably a somewhat more muscular body than me, but when hes wearing a shirt he looks just normal..but if he hadnt been weighlifting he wouldnt look average but plain skinny.
Anyways..dont care about other ppl..its all about yourself and if u can up the weights u lift ur muscles cant help but grow.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.