Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Double Your Dating Interview Series

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Does anyone know how to find or have a list of people interviewed in the Double Your Dating Interview Series? Thanks alot!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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David DeAngelo's Interviews w/Dating Gurus


1. May 2003 "Ben (aka Orion)
"Marie"
2. June 2003 "David X"

3. July 2003 "Greg"
4. August 2003 "Sam"
5. September 2003 "Robert"
6. October 2003 "Tyler"
7. November 2003 "Drew"
8. December 2003 "Doc"
9. January 2004 "Brian"
10. February 2004 "Mike"
11. March 2004 "26"
12. April 2004 "Tari"
13. May 2004 "Chet"
14. June 2004 "Craig"
15. July 2004 "Dr. Paul"
16. August 2004 "SwinggCat"
17. September 2004 "Will/Daddy"
18. October 2004 "Sean"
19. November 2004 "Patty"
"Richard"
20. December 2004 "Brent"
21. January 2005 "Stephen" aka Playboy LA
22. February 2005 "David M"
23. March 2005 "Alex"
24. April 2005 "David Shade"
25. May 2005 "Steve Celeste" aka Toe cutter
26. June 2005 "Kathryn Scott"
"Laura Moore"

27. July 2005 "Stephane"
28. August 2005 "Leil Lowndes"
29. September 2005 "Style"
30. October 2005 "Dr. Alex Benzer"

31. November 2005 "Lance" aka Sensai
32. December 2005 "Clifford"

33. January 2006 "Ken"

34. February 2006 "Geoffrey Miller"

35. March 2006 "FJ Shark"
 

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the interviews i like best are craig's, stephane's, and some girl i think who's name is marie (it consisted of two discs; all other female interviews suck). a lot of great advice about clubs and style in craig's interview. for some reason i'm really drawn to stephane's interview and listened to it several times (though i don't agree w/ how he views rejection). what are some of your guys' favorites?
 

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I subscribed to the interview series, starting with Tyler's interview, then I cancelled it a year ago.

The ones I got the most out of where Marie's, Tyler's, 26's and Doc's interview.
 

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tyler! damn, that's definitely one interview i want to check out. by the way, compare david d's voice from the beginning of the series to his voice now. notice a difference?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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enDo said:
where can I get these interviews?
David D doesn't sell back issues of his interviews. Your best bet is ebay. After bidding a couple of times, I got a couple of offers for pirated versions of his material. I bought all the interviews in an mp3 format for under $100.
 

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lol, just download them


chator56 said:
David D doesn't sell back issues of his interviews. Your best bet is ebay. After bidding a couple of times, I got a couple of offers for pirated versions of his material. I bought all the interviews in an mp3 format for under $100.
 

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I have a ton of these cd's and I haven't really played them for a while...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'd be interested to watch them, but i'm pretty sure nothing new will be on them. Of course he sells back issues, he'll do any thing for a bit of money!
 
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