"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Double Your Dating Interview Series

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Does anyone know how to find or have a list of people interviewed in the Double Your Dating Interview Series? Thanks alot!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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David DeAngelo's Interviews w/Dating Gurus


1. May 2003 "Ben (aka Orion)
"Marie"
2. June 2003 "David X"

3. July 2003 "Greg"
4. August 2003 "Sam"
5. September 2003 "Robert"
6. October 2003 "Tyler"
7. November 2003 "Drew"
8. December 2003 "Doc"
9. January 2004 "Brian"
10. February 2004 "Mike"
11. March 2004 "26"
12. April 2004 "Tari"
13. May 2004 "Chet"
14. June 2004 "Craig"
15. July 2004 "Dr. Paul"
16. August 2004 "SwinggCat"
17. September 2004 "Will/Daddy"
18. October 2004 "Sean"
19. November 2004 "Patty"
"Richard"
20. December 2004 "Brent"
21. January 2005 "Stephen" aka Playboy LA
22. February 2005 "David M"
23. March 2005 "Alex"
24. April 2005 "David Shade"
25. May 2005 "Steve Celeste" aka Toe cutter
26. June 2005 "Kathryn Scott"
"Laura Moore"

27. July 2005 "Stephane"
28. August 2005 "Leil Lowndes"
29. September 2005 "Style"
30. October 2005 "Dr. Alex Benzer"

31. November 2005 "Lance" aka Sensai
32. December 2005 "Clifford"

33. January 2006 "Ken"

34. February 2006 "Geoffrey Miller"

35. March 2006 "FJ Shark"
 

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the interviews i like best are craig's, stephane's, and some girl i think who's name is marie (it consisted of two discs; all other female interviews suck). a lot of great advice about clubs and style in craig's interview. for some reason i'm really drawn to stephane's interview and listened to it several times (though i don't agree w/ how he views rejection). what are some of your guys' favorites?
 

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I subscribed to the interview series, starting with Tyler's interview, then I cancelled it a year ago.

The ones I got the most out of where Marie's, Tyler's, 26's and Doc's interview.
 

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tyler! damn, that's definitely one interview i want to check out. by the way, compare david d's voice from the beginning of the series to his voice now. notice a difference?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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enDo said:
where can I get these interviews?
David D doesn't sell back issues of his interviews. Your best bet is ebay. After bidding a couple of times, I got a couple of offers for pirated versions of his material. I bought all the interviews in an mp3 format for under $100.
 

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lol, just download them


chator56 said:
David D doesn't sell back issues of his interviews. Your best bet is ebay. After bidding a couple of times, I got a couple of offers for pirated versions of his material. I bought all the interviews in an mp3 format for under $100.
 

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I have a ton of these cd's and I haven't really played them for a while...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'd be interested to watch them, but i'm pretty sure nothing new will be on them. Of course he sells back issues, he'll do any thing for a bit of money!
 
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