"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Double Your Dating---get A Cell Phone

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Fast-forward to 2007 and you are considered lucky if you by-pass their voicemail and get a live person. You never truly know where a person is when you call them. Voicemail, IM’s, text messages, communication devices are becoming more elaborate and are making society more anti-social & impatient. I guess the new catch phrase is E-social, one on one contacts will soon be obsolete. This is the latest form of competition, people now encounter on a daily basis. Many new questions arise; do we leave a voicemail, if she got the voicemail why has she not called me back?, are they at home, should we be completely honest about their profile pictures, what does it mean if they never answer their cell-phone, is it okay to cancel a date via texted message, why do they rarely turn on their camera phone when answering, is it okay to record audio/visual on a date, why is their phone pass-word protected, etc. Perpetual daters download pics/profiles to keep track of mini-dates prior
to meeting and then quickly delete info if things don’t work out. Texed messages are substituted for meaningful vocal conversations when relationships encounter problems. The cell-phone is ever changing and it has influenced the way in which we communicate and ultimately date. Behold the power of the cell-phone. Stalkers can call you when they are nearby, intimate pictures can be instantly exchanged, people can send love video’s or songs, send E-greetings, sympathy cards, emoticons, etc. Most cell-phones contain voice memo which is great for remembering WHERE U PARKED or her name.

It’s great if you are running late, get lost and need directions, or if you forgot something while grocery shopping, need to reschedule due to unforeseen circumstances, emergencies. Cell-phones also have digital recording capabilities to capture events live, as well as camera’s to depict all the places you been, chics you banged, famous people u met, etc. You can also use it as an escape a date tool by pretending someone text’d you for an emergency. Cell phones are also making a fashion statement and are now a must have accessory to any outfit. A person’s cell-phone can reveal a lot about their social status. Everything from the brand name of the phone, to the color and even your ringtone all reveal a little bit about you and what you are into. The cell phone can be a handy portable wingman you can whip out when you need a quick pick-up line, some motivational encouragement or serve as evidence of social proof to your buddies. It gives you instant access to prior communications, numerous dating profiles, pictures, tips, news, ice-breakers all at the touch of a few buttons. Did you know as of 2007 15% of all downloads now come from cell phone ringtones. Sending affection on the fly via cell phone is a growing trend. If you do not have a cell-phone maybe it’s time you got one and became more E-social. It’s great when you can’t find a pen to write down their number, looks very cool at night with the glowing keypad. Games and video’s when you are really bored and cool when you need to find someone in a noisy, crowded bar.

its like a portable wingman........the old days of got a pen and finding a piece of paper and trying to write ina club are just plain gone.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Cell phones are way over rated.
 
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Let's go back to the days before computers were invented.

Oh yeah, life will be so much easier.

Use technology to your advantage instead of crying about it like a girl.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What a retarded dramatization of a painful to read post more suited to have been written five years ago.
 
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Instant messenger has helped me get laid like a champ LOL.. don't know what the OP is doing wrong.
 
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