"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Double the age and may possibly have both major strains of herpes.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I have hesitated to some great levels in dating a 30 y/o with me soon to be 22. And that's with her looking 23, fun girl, and plenty of physical action. There's no way I'd ever consider any older. It's already the consideration of - when she's 50, I'll be 42 and in my prime, she'll be 20 years past her prime. That's simply the reality of male and female life.
Don't do it. You'll regret it. You'll think it's great now - and then it's going to take a dive. She's 30 freaking years older than you. She could have kids older than you and you'd never even know because they could be cross-country living on their own with their OWN kids.
You sound like BibleBelt.. first he was repulsed that his girlfriend was 80 lbs overweight, then he realized she's "only" 40 lbs overweight, now he's realized he loves thick women!dajinn said:
Next week she'll be 45 years old. Maybe in two months she'll be your age!
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CRUCIAL FACT OMITTED!! That changes everything. WIFE HER UP!!dajinn said:
Bokanovsky
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Totally a troll. But with an absurd amount of time on his hands.Bokanovsky said:
Do you think he's stuck in a wheelchair or is he one of those 1,500-pound dudes who can't leave the house?