Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Wyldfire

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Okay, let's face it...how you kiss a woman can either make or break your image in her eyes. You can use this simple technique to sweep a woman off her feet and double her interest level in you. Use this technique wisely and only on women you want to really fall for you. Don't use it on someone you don't want to keep around or you'll never get rid of her.

When you go in for the kiss, put your hands on her neck and very gently caress her. Start the kiss off softly, still gently stroking her neck, and running your fingers through her hair at the nape of her neck. Very softly and slowly part her lips with your tongue. Don't put your tongue too far into her mouth...just a little bit in and work it very slowly and without much pressure. A kiss like this makes a woman weak in the knees. Save the hard passionate kisses for later on down the line. Use this more erotic kind of kiss to keep her thinking of you until you see her again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Two interesting tips from you in two days! Nice work, Wyldfire! I have assimilated the info.
I have never thought of the tongue thing. It could be useful if she doesn’t open her mouth herself. (Which she normally should do when you approach for a kiss.)

/Turbobird.

[This message has been edited by Turbobird (edited 11-28-2001).]
 

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Hey Wyldfire! I have a couple of questions for you…

First of all, I’ve done this many times, but a couple of questions have just come to my mind:

1. How effective would this be for a 2nd date/ 1st kiss type of situation? Say after going out and having a lot of fun, and the moment feels right…
2. When I go for the 1st kiss, we are usually already holding each other -- with her arms around my neck and mine around her waist. Any way to do what you were saying while holding each other close?

I look forward to your response!


~Classic~
 

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Originally posted by Classic:
Hey Wyldfire! I have a couple of questions for you…

First of all, I’ve done this many times, but a couple of questions have just come to my mind:

1. How effective would this be for a 2nd date/ 1st kiss type of situation? Say after going out and having a lot of fun, and the moment feels right…
2. When I go for the 1st kiss, we are usually already holding each other -- with her arms around my neck and mine around her waist. Any way to do what you were saying while holding each other close?

I look forward to your response!


~Classic~

You can be as close as you want to do this, but you need to have your hands (or at least one of them) on her neck. Most women have an incredibly sensitive neck. A soft erotic kiss with attention to the neck at the same time will make her weak in the knees.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I kiss my GF on the back of her neck after lifting up her hair and she starts to squirm as soon as my lips touch her skin. She has to stop me cause of all the goosebumps she gets. Works every time.
 

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This is the same technique I used before and still do that I posted on Dancers thread awhile ago. I can't find it. But Wyldfire is right. You could wring her panties out after doing this.

Good Luck,

Legend

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"The key to happiness in your life is "Your Life",... Don the Legend
 

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smooch
 

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I always do this. It's why I rule.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well..is somehow..interesting...ya...but..one stupid q. both hands on her neck...and ...what;s the part with the hair...?...
waitin....if u have the time

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"how can i go to a girl and find out how smart and interesting she is if i can't even look at her?...
 

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Originally posted by CapBoy:
well..is somehow..interesting...ya...but..one stupid q. both hands on her neck...and ...what;s the part with the hair...?...
waitin....if u have the time

A woman has different erogenous zones than do men. Almost every woman is very sensitive on the sides and back of her neck...especially close to the hairline.
 

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Originally posted by JUST ME:
bump..wyld or mystery woman or wildthang,penkitten?/ ladies please answer this
I am the one who made the original tip, if you are asking for a comment. So I guess I have already given mine.
 

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Great tip. I tease them that way.

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~The_Chosen~ has spoken...

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is just not an act but a habit." - Aristotle

Judge a man by his questions and not his answers.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bumping this up after seeing a few posts asking about kissing techniques...
 

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Wyldfire, when you say "caress her neck", what exactly do you mean by that? And when you say "gently", does that mean barely touching (almost tickling like a feather), or something more forceful?

Forgive me for asking such a stupid question, but I am relatively ignorant in these matters (and am trying to better myself).
 

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gentle is the key...being forceful is good for rough sex, but that's not what I'm talking about here.

Caressing her neck is basically very gently, lightly and softly running your fingers along her hairline on the back and sides of her neck.

This is THE best method to use for the first kiss. It will leave a lasting and strong impression and most women will latch onto a man who kisses her in this way.
 

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I'm usually nevrever enthusiastic sounding but...

pump out more of these suckers!


[Tips, I mean.]
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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