"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Double Dates

tennisbuck12

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Board,

How do you handle this situation. My friend (a women) is setting me up with one of her friends. No big deal, right. The kicker is she doesn't want to meet 1-1 but wants to go on a double date with my friend and her BF on Friday. How do you guys usually handle this situation.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dustmuffin

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I would go. If things work out set up a second date alone.
 

tennisbuck12

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Thanks. Do you pay attention to the whole group or just the one your getting fixed up with?
 

blind_one

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Hey, don't stress it dude. Go out and have fun. If she likes you, she likes you and you can play it further at this point just relax, you don't know her.

 

Darth

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Board,

How do you handle this situation. My friend (a women) is setting me up with one of her friends. No big deal, right. The kicker is she doesn't want to meet 1-1 but wants to go on a double date with my friend and her BF on Friday. How do you guys usually handle this situation.
Double dates are highly traditional...for teenagers. I would keep my eye out but if you like her enough, do it exactly once. Darth
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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