"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Double Dates

tennisbuck12

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How do you handle this situation. My friend (a women) is setting me up with one of her friends. No big deal, right. The kicker is she doesn't want to meet 1-1 but wants to go on a double date with my friend and her BF on Friday. How do you guys usually handle this situation.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dustmuffin

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I would go. If things work out set up a second date alone.
 

tennisbuck12

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Thanks. Do you pay attention to the whole group or just the one your getting fixed up with?
 

blind_one

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Hey, don't stress it dude. Go out and have fun. If she likes you, she likes you and you can play it further at this point just relax, you don't know her.

 

Darth

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Board,

How do you handle this situation. My friend (a women) is setting me up with one of her friends. No big deal, right. The kicker is she doesn't want to meet 1-1 but wants to go on a double date with my friend and her BF on Friday. How do you guys usually handle this situation.
Double dates are highly traditional...for teenagers. I would keep my eye out but if you like her enough, do it exactly once. Darth
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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