"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Double date?

volkme68

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I open a two set at this rival fraternity's party a couple nights ago, A had a couple guys with me but I was alone at the time. My fraternity doesn't usually get along with them, but I tend to get along with everyone, People just seem to love me. Long story short, I know like three guys there, and they're my fraternity brothers, but both are fraternities are trying to make peace.

Both girls were quite attractive and I managed to get both numbers, then go and socialize with other folks. A little later, I was with my boys at the party, and the girls came back up and wanted to hang. I hooked my buddy up with the one I didn't want shot a little C&F at the one I really wanted and we just chilled out. Said girl ate it up and she was all over me the whole night. Lots of Kino especially by her. I also met her older brother. He seems pretty cool and we got along well.

He saw some friend of hers and asked her to hook him up. She of course says yeah, and brings up a double date for him. She then comes up to me and begs me to go with her on this double date in a week or two. I said I'd think about it.

I finally call her today and we hung out a little then she went to aparty with me. This one was at one of my fraternity bro's houses. It was pretty small (50ish) I knew everyone there and I tend to be the life of the party, so everyone was talking to me. she definitely had to fight for my attention.

we left seperately, but when she left, she brought up the Double date thing again and I told he I'd have to think about it a little. and she wants to do it next sat.

The girl is cool and attractive and I really dont mind a double date. Her bro likes me and isnt going to ****block me, but I really dont know her that well.

What do you guys think? I usually dont do double dates and if i do, they are later when i really know the girl. I personally think her bro is being dumb asking his sis to hook him up but that aint my problem, since i just am interested in his sister. I am not worried about myself not having anything to say, but should I give her a negatory on the DD thing or not?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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volkme68

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what are your guys' thoughts? Yay or Nay on the double date?
 

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NEVER EVER DO DOUBLE DATES! If you're not banging her do not share her attention. She may even feel attracked to the other guy present not in your case since its her brother but still. What if hes funnier? What if hes the center of attention? That would just make you look bad. There are no positives here. If you are the center of attention then you would have been so even if the other couple were not there.

It looks like she will persist on this and it may be counter productive to say no to her. Try and sneak a few dates/meets before the actual double date. Take her as far as you can first and then you should have nothing to fear as anything that comes out of your mouth will be gold to her.
 

volkme68

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yeah i think your right about the double date being no good. your right that she is being kind of persistant about it too. I guess the only thing to do is try and go out a few more times before this double thing goes down.
 
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