"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Double Date on Saturday.

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My friend is dating this girl on saturday and he wants me to come along because she is bringing her friend from another state. And they want me to be her date.

Any tips? He said that she claims that she is verrrrrryyyy georgous. Please can an Expert reply to this. With tips.

My main worry is that i dunno if this will happen. That she might like be like EWW to me or something sence she is supose to be hot.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't doubt, just go there and expect something without thinking badly about it.
 
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She doesn't care what you look like as much as she does if you are confident or not and all that jazz. In my experience a girl will say that another girl is gorgeous or beautiful and they actually won't be but who knows. Just try to have fun and it won't be that big a deal. If she is from another state and just visiting then she is probaly just looking for a good time.
 
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That she might like be like EWW to me or something sence she is supose to be hot.
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That's your first mistake. If you go in worried like that, you won't get anywhere.

Just remember- She's a person too. No more, no less. Pretty face or no, treat her like any other girl.

And here's something to calm those nerves- she's from another state, so if you do mess up, no matter how bad you do, you'll never see her again, so swing for the fences! Have no fear!
 
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