"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Double Date on Saturday.

Phat

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My friend is dating this girl on saturday and he wants me to come along because she is bringing her friend from another state. And they want me to be her date.

Any tips? He said that she claims that she is verrrrrryyyy georgous. Please can an Expert reply to this. With tips.

My main worry is that i dunno if this will happen. That she might like be like EWW to me or something sence she is supose to be hot.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tactic

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Don't doubt, just go there and expect something without thinking badly about it.
 

08aisaac

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She doesn't care what you look like as much as she does if you are confident or not and all that jazz. In my experience a girl will say that another girl is gorgeous or beautiful and they actually won't be but who knows. Just try to have fun and it won't be that big a deal. If she is from another state and just visiting then she is probaly just looking for a good time.
 

StrangeButTrue

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That she might like be like EWW to me or something sence she is supose to be hot.
That's your first mistake. If you go in worried like that, you won't get anywhere.

Just remember- She's a person too. No more, no less. Pretty face or no, treat her like any other girl.

And here's something to calm those nerves- she's from another state, so if you do mess up, no matter how bad you do, you'll never see her again, so swing for the fences! Have no fear!
 
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