"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Double Date Good or Bad?

armybyrd

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Last weekend a friend had a bbq and afterwards he and his wife and 2 of her friends(one of whom theyre trying to set me up with) all played a few party games. Anyways to fast forward not much happened but the next day he told me she said I was cute and had a lot of fun. He's setting up a double date for dinner this weekend. Does this sound like a bad idea since we haven't had a chance to hang out one on one or should I just take the opportunity and see what happens? My worry with the double date is that it could be awkward and we wont get much of a chance to get to know eachother.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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pdx1138

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You're kinda setting yourself up for failure by thinking that way already.

If you met her already in person and she's good friends with your friend, then go for it i say.

keep it light and fun.
 

armybyrd

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I could go either way. To be positive Id say at least with the double the 4 of us could feed off of each others conversations so less chance of any awkward silences. Im sure we could still get to know one another and if dinner goes well maybe we could break off and do something one on one afterwards.
 
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