"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Double Date Good or Bad?

armybyrd

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Last weekend a friend had a bbq and afterwards he and his wife and 2 of her friends(one of whom theyre trying to set me up with) all played a few party games. Anyways to fast forward not much happened but the next day he told me she said I was cute and had a lot of fun. He's setting up a double date for dinner this weekend. Does this sound like a bad idea since we haven't had a chance to hang out one on one or should I just take the opportunity and see what happens? My worry with the double date is that it could be awkward and we wont get much of a chance to get to know eachother.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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pdx1138

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You're kinda setting yourself up for failure by thinking that way already.

If you met her already in person and she's good friends with your friend, then go for it i say.

keep it light and fun.
 

armybyrd

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I could go either way. To be positive Id say at least with the double the 4 of us could feed off of each others conversations so less chance of any awkward silences. Im sure we could still get to know one another and if dinner goes well maybe we could break off and do something one on one afterwards.
 
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