"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Double Chin

Jon55

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I used to be a pretty lean guy, and now I've gained a few extra pounds (and it's starting to show :(). My biggest pet peeve is the extra chin I'm starting to get. I've read some articles that say to stretch the neck/chin muscles out, and results will be seen (Is this true?).


I know basic fat loss is a solid answer, but don't know where (specifically which kind of exercises are most effective, etc.) to start as I've always had to focus on gaining (Running sucks by the way, surly there must be better methods?).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You seem to know the answer.

It's incredibly hard (perhaps impossible) to spot reduce fat, you just need to work on reducing your overall fat levels.

It comes down to eating less and moving more.

Hit the weights, do cardio and watch what you eat. If you see your progress stagnating, up cardio and decrease what you are eating.
 
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