"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dont'cha hate it when

slitherjef

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You want to approch but can't? Not because you are afraid to, but just can't get to the chick you wanted to approch either because you where busy or she was?

At work today they where doing some demos of some drink, so there would have been an excuse right there to go up and talk to her, but the store was busy, I was by my self getting slammed by customers and she was busy with her demos. Well, if I had time, say a break today I could of tried a sample of what ever the heck it was she was demo-ing, but there was the problem of her being busy and another demo table was set right next to her, along with an older woman. Ever so often I would look up and the older woman was away from the table, but the chick I wanted to approch was busy.

Damn!

So I figured maybe I could try after I was off, which was at 6. Too bad she started packing up her s**t quarter till 5. That plan was out. Short handed today so, like I said, getting to her was hard.

Don't you hate when you want to approch but hit a damn roadblock? I mean, she was a sitting duck and all I had to do was get a good shot in and pull the trigger. I may have gotten shot down, but still.

Does this happen to you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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he who hesitates is lost.. Ya i know the feeling but sometimes u have to take the risk and just go up to without ever looking back.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Of course. The only problem was... I could not get away from doing my job
 

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Jeff, buddy..look don't sweat it.

She's not the only woman in the world.
Come on. Do I have to reiterate the old tried and true DJ philosophies on you?

Never Regret, man. Never get into a frenzy of worrying or anxiety. Especially for a woman who still HAS NOT demonstrated real, deep meaningful Love for you.
Never project more Value than something is REALLY WORTH.


Come on, Jeff. Get some perspective, man.


Just stay onthe train, and lead, lead , lead.

Re read Pook's Book.

Got to the gym, and hit the wieights a little heavier.
And get Centered and well Grounded.
 

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Interceptor said:
Jeff, buddy..look don't sweat it.

She's not the only woman in the world.
Come on. Do I have to reiterate the old tried and true DJ philosophies on you?

Never Regret, man. Never get into a frenzy of worrying or anxiety. Especially for a woman who still HAS NOT demonstrated real, deep meaningful Love for you.
Never project more Value than something is REALLY WORTH.


Come on, Jeff. Get some perspective, man.


Just stay onthe train, and lead, lead , lead.

Re read Pook's Book.

Got to the gym, and hit the wieights a little heavier.
And get Centered and well Grounded.
You are making sound like I was crying or something. I was NOT. Right now, I could care less. Sure it sucks, but its not like I am going to sit here and cry because the situation did not allow me to approch.
 
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