"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dont'cha hate it when

slitherjef

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You want to approch but can't? Not because you are afraid to, but just can't get to the chick you wanted to approch either because you where busy or she was?

At work today they where doing some demos of some drink, so there would have been an excuse right there to go up and talk to her, but the store was busy, I was by my self getting slammed by customers and she was busy with her demos. Well, if I had time, say a break today I could of tried a sample of what ever the heck it was she was demo-ing, but there was the problem of her being busy and another demo table was set right next to her, along with an older woman. Ever so often I would look up and the older woman was away from the table, but the chick I wanted to approch was busy.

Damn!

So I figured maybe I could try after I was off, which was at 6. Too bad she started packing up her s**t quarter till 5. That plan was out. Short handed today so, like I said, getting to her was hard.

Don't you hate when you want to approch but hit a damn roadblock? I mean, she was a sitting duck and all I had to do was get a good shot in and pull the trigger. I may have gotten shot down, but still.

Does this happen to you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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he who hesitates is lost.. Ya i know the feeling but sometimes u have to take the risk and just go up to without ever looking back.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Of course. The only problem was... I could not get away from doing my job
 

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Jeff, buddy..look don't sweat it.

She's not the only woman in the world.
Come on. Do I have to reiterate the old tried and true DJ philosophies on you?

Never Regret, man. Never get into a frenzy of worrying or anxiety. Especially for a woman who still HAS NOT demonstrated real, deep meaningful Love for you.
Never project more Value than something is REALLY WORTH.


Come on, Jeff. Get some perspective, man.


Just stay onthe train, and lead, lead , lead.

Re read Pook's Book.

Got to the gym, and hit the wieights a little heavier.
And get Centered and well Grounded.
 

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Interceptor said:
Jeff, buddy..look don't sweat it.

She's not the only woman in the world.
Come on. Do I have to reiterate the old tried and true DJ philosophies on you?

Never Regret, man. Never get into a frenzy of worrying or anxiety. Especially for a woman who still HAS NOT demonstrated real, deep meaningful Love for you.
Never project more Value than something is REALLY WORTH.


Come on, Jeff. Get some perspective, man.


Just stay onthe train, and lead, lead , lead.

Re read Pook's Book.

Got to the gym, and hit the wieights a little heavier.
And get Centered and well Grounded.
You are making sound like I was crying or something. I was NOT. Right now, I could care less. Sure it sucks, but its not like I am going to sit here and cry because the situation did not allow me to approch.
 
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