"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dont'cha hate it when

slitherjef

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You want to approch but can't? Not because you are afraid to, but just can't get to the chick you wanted to approch either because you where busy or she was?

At work today they where doing some demos of some drink, so there would have been an excuse right there to go up and talk to her, but the store was busy, I was by my self getting slammed by customers and she was busy with her demos. Well, if I had time, say a break today I could of tried a sample of what ever the heck it was she was demo-ing, but there was the problem of her being busy and another demo table was set right next to her, along with an older woman. Ever so often I would look up and the older woman was away from the table, but the chick I wanted to approch was busy.

Damn!

So I figured maybe I could try after I was off, which was at 6. Too bad she started packing up her s**t quarter till 5. That plan was out. Short handed today so, like I said, getting to her was hard.

Don't you hate when you want to approch but hit a damn roadblock? I mean, she was a sitting duck and all I had to do was get a good shot in and pull the trigger. I may have gotten shot down, but still.

Does this happen to you?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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he who hesitates is lost.. Ya i know the feeling but sometimes u have to take the risk and just go up to without ever looking back.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Of course. The only problem was... I could not get away from doing my job
 

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Jeff, buddy..look don't sweat it.

She's not the only woman in the world.
Come on. Do I have to reiterate the old tried and true DJ philosophies on you?

Never Regret, man. Never get into a frenzy of worrying or anxiety. Especially for a woman who still HAS NOT demonstrated real, deep meaningful Love for you.
Never project more Value than something is REALLY WORTH.


Come on, Jeff. Get some perspective, man.


Just stay onthe train, and lead, lead , lead.

Re read Pook's Book.

Got to the gym, and hit the wieights a little heavier.
And get Centered and well Grounded.
 

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Interceptor said:
Jeff, buddy..look don't sweat it.

She's not the only woman in the world.
Come on. Do I have to reiterate the old tried and true DJ philosophies on you?

Never Regret, man. Never get into a frenzy of worrying or anxiety. Especially for a woman who still HAS NOT demonstrated real, deep meaningful Love for you.
Never project more Value than something is REALLY WORTH.


Come on, Jeff. Get some perspective, man.


Just stay onthe train, and lead, lead , lead.

Re read Pook's Book.

Got to the gym, and hit the wieights a little heavier.
And get Centered and well Grounded.
You are making sound like I was crying or something. I was NOT. Right now, I could care less. Sure it sucks, but its not like I am going to sit here and cry because the situation did not allow me to approch.
 
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