"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't you wish it was this easy?

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Women! Want to pick up men? Look good! That's all you have to do. You can say the dumbest sh!t ever, but it doesn't matter what you say because men are only concerned with the way you look. Talk talk talk and say dumb sh!t because all you really have to do is look good.

Men! If you wouldn't suck up to women because they're beautiful, you'd be so far ahead. So, take it away from them. Hit on the hot girl's ugly friend, ignore the hot girls, treat the pretty women as though they're ugly...

TAKE AWAY THEIR BEAUTY AND WATCH THEIR ATTITUDE TOWARD YOU CHANGE.

Act toward those beautiful, snobby b!tches as though THEY AREN'T! Talk to them as if they are a homeless beggar on the streets.

Seriously!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mavrick said:
Men! If you wouldn't suck up to women because they're beautiful, you'd be so far ahead. So, take it away from them. Hit on the hot girl's ugly friend, ignore the hot girls, treat the pretty women as though they're ugly...

Welcome to 2004. Seriously though, this is Mystery Method 101 stuff. It's also right in line with Tom Leykis's idea of not giving women validation because it inflates their ego. Women with high self-esteem are often the most difficult to date. Doubly so if they are not humble. Triple so if they regularly use their looks to their advantage to the point that's all they have going for themselves.
 

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Simple stuff really - it's the reason why the hot chicks fugly friend will insist on hitting on you, then proceed to turn on you and destroy your rep out of spite. (I've learnt that the hard way enough times). Good point to make again though.
 

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I was three sheets to the wind last night when I wrote this. I was in a really "to the point" mood, and the alcohol expounded upon that.
 

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"Treat the dogs as beauties and the beauties as dogs."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Allurre said:
Actually... if a stunning looking girl comes up to me but sounds far from educated, I wouldn't make time to converse with her. =)
Good to see someone else has some fibre around here. Though I'd be inclined to chat just to practice, boost my ego and then promptly crush hers.
 
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