"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't you wish it was this easy?

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Women! Want to pick up men? Look good! That's all you have to do. You can say the dumbest sh!t ever, but it doesn't matter what you say because men are only concerned with the way you look. Talk talk talk and say dumb sh!t because all you really have to do is look good.

Men! If you wouldn't suck up to women because they're beautiful, you'd be so far ahead. So, take it away from them. Hit on the hot girl's ugly friend, ignore the hot girls, treat the pretty women as though they're ugly...

TAKE AWAY THEIR BEAUTY AND WATCH THEIR ATTITUDE TOWARD YOU CHANGE.

Act toward those beautiful, snobby b!tches as though THEY AREN'T! Talk to them as if they are a homeless beggar on the streets.

Seriously!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mavrick said:
Men! If you wouldn't suck up to women because they're beautiful, you'd be so far ahead. So, take it away from them. Hit on the hot girl's ugly friend, ignore the hot girls, treat the pretty women as though they're ugly...

Welcome to 2004. Seriously though, this is Mystery Method 101 stuff. It's also right in line with Tom Leykis's idea of not giving women validation because it inflates their ego. Women with high self-esteem are often the most difficult to date. Doubly so if they are not humble. Triple so if they regularly use their looks to their advantage to the point that's all they have going for themselves.
 

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Simple stuff really - it's the reason why the hot chicks fugly friend will insist on hitting on you, then proceed to turn on you and destroy your rep out of spite. (I've learnt that the hard way enough times). Good point to make again though.
 

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I was three sheets to the wind last night when I wrote this. I was in a really "to the point" mood, and the alcohol expounded upon that.
 

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"Treat the dogs as beauties and the beauties as dogs."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Allurre said:
Actually... if a stunning looking girl comes up to me but sounds far from educated, I wouldn't make time to converse with her. =)
Good to see someone else has some fibre around here. Though I'd be inclined to chat just to practice, boost my ego and then promptly crush hers.
 
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