You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Do I hate leg day? Not really it's the walking after squats or the next day on the foam roller.I know i dont wanna look like Zac efron but seriously guys, what do you tell yourself everytime you wanna skip a leg day? My pt told me to eat like 4 chicken legs after that. Do you guys have any suggestion on what to eat or supplements to take after?
I've never wanted to skip leg day...I know i dont wanna look like Zac efron but seriously guys, what do you tell yourself everytime you wanna skip a leg day? My pt told me to eat like 4 chicken legs after that. Do you guys have any suggestion on what to eat or supplements to take after?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeah...And one of the best way to get huge traps and shoulders is to do heavy deadlifts and on the last rep of each set, hold it at the top as long as you can while letting it stretch your traps down, and then follow that with as many shrugs as you can...Splitting hairs...
Both exercises are beneficial. In my opinion the most important factor is to do one or both of them CONSISTENTLY.
Farmers walk is awesome. My legs are always sore the next day.Farmers walk 100 steps forward/100 steps backward 40 lb DBs
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Squats: 90, 110, 130, 150, 180 (Cut me some slack, I turned 17 not too long ago)How many pounds?
I read a scientific study that confirmed what you said about squatting and other lower body exercises helping release testosterone that helps you build bigger arms.
That being said, if you want bigger arms, you have to do compound and isolation lifts that build bigger biceps and triceps. Squatting and deadlifting alone won't build huge arms.
Here's my favorite arms exercises:
- chin ups
- barbell bicep curls
- dumbbell bicep curls (alternate, hammer, concentration etc)
- overhead triceps extensions (barbell/dumbbell)
- triceps pushdowns
- pushups
Some compound lifts I like to do include lots of rowing exercises (seated rows, bent over barbell and dumbbell rows) and of course the bench press.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Split squats are tremendous...I love them, very effective especially when done properly.Do any of you guys do bulgarian split squats?
I'm looking for an alternative leg mass builder to squats that carries less chance of injury to the lower back. Whenever the lower back pain flares up I take a break from legs then return and its fine for a week or 2 and then it flares up again. I don't want it to keep returning and I don't want to keep skipping leg day.
I'm thinking
-Bulgarian split squats
-Straight/romanian deadlifts (my back is completely fine with this one)
-Hip thrusts/weighted glute bridges
-calf raises
I can't fvck with front squats...they bruise the hell out of my shoulders and no matter how hard try I cannot flex my elbows far enough up to hold the bar properly...oh well, I don't care, my legs are beyond jacked anyways, I don't need them, lmaoFront squats
Hack squats
Goblet squats
Lunges
Leg curls
Leg press
Reverse curls
Mountainbiking
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.