"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't you just adore the way their heads work?

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I'll begin by saying that I seriously, seriously, screwed up. I'm talking, behaviour so bizarre that Tom Cruise's recent shenanigans wouldn't raise a single brow in comparison. I wanted so bad not to lose her, that I did everything TO lose her. That kinda thing.

Anyway, I scared her off. Either that, or she hooked up with someone else a little more grounded, but I definately did a lot of wrong things, and I take full blame (well, the alcoholic shell I was living under didn't help). Duh. I didn't hear from her for a month, and I was too ashamed of myself to even attempt contacting her.

I spent that time re-evaluated things, and made a lot of changes in my life, and I quickly bounced back and started acting like myself again.

Then, just when I thought it was safe, she sends me a text message. She indirectly asked me out to see a movie. I questioned her sudden interest, assuming that she was terrified of me, and also told her that I had already seen it. She tells me that she needed time to get over it (IE: whoever she hooked up with must not have done it for her). She also said that she misses me, and that we should get together sometime. I reply with a simple "Oh", and let it go, for now.

Now, she's either still interested in me (she must be a masochist), she got dumped and needs some validation, or she's plain just fvcking about with my head.

I guess I'll just have to wait and see what she does next, and hope I don't revert back into a mong.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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or she wants valadation and to play with you...


time will tell, be on your toes
 
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If she dumped you, then you seriously cannot expect anything serious out of this. I believe Antidump here. When a girl says "It's over" you are now a loser in her eyes, and nothing you can ever do in the future, can get her to have a serious committed relationship with you. Do you just want to play around with her, not too serious? Go ahead, that's okay But for the love of god, don't get attached to a girl that's dumped you, and don't expect a relationship.
Cause if she comes back and says "I miss you, I want to see you", then basically what's she's saying is:

"Well Now that I know that I can dump you and you'll still be here when I get back, you'll do basically anything I want! YAY! I have a lapdog".

If it was me, no matter how hard, I would say no. Just no. Not now, not ever.
 
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