"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A really pretty girl or a girl you've been wanting to meet actually approches you in a time of inconveniance to YOU! Example your looking like sh*t because you forgot to shower or you just got out of the gym, so your not feeling your best and just want to GET AWAY. So you just small talk and totally f*ck up the initial meeting with that girl and likely the chances with the girl.

This happened to me few days ago, I'm at school working on something and this girl who I was really eager to meet actually started to talk to me. I was planning to get a car before I started meeting girls and I was also wicked busy with work. So I kinda was an assh*le to her and just walked away. So basically I messed up my first approach! Does the first meeting with a girl even matter? I read in the DJ bible that in the first meeting a girl decides wether or not she'll have sex with that guy...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you should have said. im busy right now but if you give me your number..blah blah blah... you fill in the rest. see simple.
 
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Kevin Cass said:
you should have said. im busy right now but if you give me your number..blah blah blah... you fill in the rest. see simple.
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You see I don't want to do that, cuz if I do she'll assume that I'm really interested and actually ready to go out. I'm at a point where I have other things to deal with first, like getting a car which would make things easier so I'm really not interested in meeting girls until I figure those out. If I don't I'll have too many other things to worry about and it'll get in my way.
 
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Its the worst!

One night I was at a gig watching a wicked band (the cat empire). Their set was cranking! My friends and I had been driniking all night. When I drink I need to pee A LOT.

The Empire came on just as I was on my way to piss. I was like **** it, I can hold on. They played a real long set. I thought I was about to piss myself. It was during their last song (although I didn't realise it was there last song at the time) that I finally made a dash for the toilet.

An absolute hottie was dancing right behind me. In fact I figured it must have been her that had been pressing herself against my back for the entire set.

She grabbed my hands and shouted "dance with me!" into my ear. That was the hottest girl to ever approach me.. . was an 11.5 on a scale of 10.

But I needed to pee real bad! When you gotta go you gotta go.

I just pushed her aside and ran for the loo. When I came out the gig was over and everyone was leaving.

I never saw her again.

There are tears in my eyes as I write this.

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Too bad she wasnt a german chick!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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