"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't women know that male friends are a liability, not a selling point?

Luthor Rex

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jophil28 said:
Unfortunately for her, a lot of high value guys would not even bother to engage her, preferring instead to maximize their time investment by snaring an equally attractive and available candidate without the 'orbiter' obstacle and their annoyance factor.
I was thinking the same thing. Rollo is right about what he says, and I think his strategy would work... but I say to myself "that's a lot of time and energy I could use doing something else".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe these AW girls are actually doing us a service. If they keep all these orbiters circling them hoping to be advanced to boyfriend status, that leaves more girls out there open for the rest of us :)
 
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