"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't Waste Your Time with Women with Low IL's

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Just don't!

I have made the mistake numerous times.

It's your job as a man to open and initiate but if you find yourself noticing the below behavior, move on.

She never:

- Texts or calls, you always you doing the initiating
- Never asks to hang out
- Always "too busy" and hangs out on her terms
- Goes "No Contact" for long periods of time
- Never offers to do anything for you
- Sex is always on her terms, when she wants it

These are just a few examples. Fellas, just don't waste your time! Show self respect and Next! These chicks generally will stick around but are never truly interested in you!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Totally agree. These women will drag your confidence and your flow down and they will cause you to miss out on more opportunities.

One thing that is very helpful for guys to learn is the power of acceptance. A lot of us can be control freaks, we want to believe we can make a woman interested or there has to be a logical reason for her drop in interest, or maybe a mindgame or something else that can be "solved".

But when you learn to accept rejection, low interest and just move on, you develop a flawless method for dealing with these situations.
 
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