Don't Waste Your Time with Women with Low IL's

[CHICAGO27]

Just don't!

I have made the mistake numerous times.

It's your job as a man to open and initiate but if you find yourself noticing the below behavior, move on.

She never:

- Texts or calls, you always you doing the initiating
- Never asks to hang out
- Always "too busy" and hangs out on her terms
- Goes "No Contact" for long periods of time
- Never offers to do anything for you
- Sex is always on her terms, when she wants it

These are just a few examples. Fellas, just don't waste your time! Show self respect and Next! These chicks generally will stick around but are never truly interested in you!

 

[Jariel]

Totally agree. These women will drag your confidence and your flow down and they will cause you to miss out on more opportunities.

One thing that is very helpful for guys to learn is the power of acceptance. A lot of us can be control freaks, we want to believe we can make a woman interested or there has to be a logical reason for her drop in interest, or maybe a mindgame or something else that can be "solved".

But when you learn to accept rejection, low interest and just move on, you develop a flawless method for dealing with these situations.

 

[VladPatton]

I put up a cheat sheet of signs of low interest back in July:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=206908