"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't want to screw it up...

PrinceOfCats

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What's up everyone, I'm new here (as you can see), but I've been lurking for a pretty long while.

Here's the deal: I'm a senior at a new school, and right now I don't have a whole lot of friends, though I do have some. In my second hour I know virtually no one, but the thing is, there's this one girl there (about a 7.5) who seems to be expressing interest in me (not overtly, but through signals here and there). What I'm looking for is advice on how to get closer to her and hold/increase her interest, despite the fact that I don't rank too high on my school's social scale (which I'm working on the meantime). I have a tendency to wait too long and/or be too much of a "nice guy," which has led to a lot of missed opportunities in the past, so I want to be careful not to mess up again this time. Confidence isn't really the issue; I know that I'm good-looking, and I don't have a problem talking to girls. I just need some guidance on how to steer things the right way. Thanks.

PS: Just for reference, this girl isn't hugely popular, but she does have a fairly good-sized group of friends. She's also pretty smart (not at all the bubbly airheaded type), if that makes a difference in the macking technique.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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08aisaac

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True, talk to her, be outgoing, and she will see this characteristic.

Atleast, this is my game, and this attracts alot of people. Get some bro's, and eat lunch with them, and her, if possible. idk, it works pretty well for me.

Atleast chat her up a little bit, and get her #.
 
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