"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't want to screw it up...

PrinceOfCats

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What's up everyone, I'm new here (as you can see), but I've been lurking for a pretty long while.

Here's the deal: I'm a senior at a new school, and right now I don't have a whole lot of friends, though I do have some. In my second hour I know virtually no one, but the thing is, there's this one girl there (about a 7.5) who seems to be expressing interest in me (not overtly, but through signals here and there). What I'm looking for is advice on how to get closer to her and hold/increase her interest, despite the fact that I don't rank too high on my school's social scale (which I'm working on the meantime). I have a tendency to wait too long and/or be too much of a "nice guy," which has led to a lot of missed opportunities in the past, so I want to be careful not to mess up again this time. Confidence isn't really the issue; I know that I'm good-looking, and I don't have a problem talking to girls. I just need some guidance on how to steer things the right way. Thanks.

PS: Just for reference, this girl isn't hugely popular, but she does have a fairly good-sized group of friends. She's also pretty smart (not at all the bubbly airheaded type), if that makes a difference in the macking technique.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

08aisaac

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True, talk to her, be outgoing, and she will see this characteristic.

Atleast, this is my game, and this attracts alot of people. Get some bro's, and eat lunch with them, and her, if possible. idk, it works pretty well for me.

Atleast chat her up a little bit, and get her #.
 
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