"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't want to "hang out" with this girl

Krak

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So there was this girl that I was seeing a few months ago and I ended up not liking her that much, so I stopped talking to her. I ended up talking to her again on Thursday and the conversation pretty much goes like this:

HB: Hey guess what!?
Me: what?
HB: I'm done with school, we can hang out now!
Me: thats cool but I'm not done till June, don't know if I'll have time
HB: oh, well you should just drop out so we can hang out
Me: Nah, I'm pretty sure school is more important but I might have some free time on Monday night.
HB: blah blah blah, I'm free after 8.
Me: ok, talk to you later

So now I'm regretting saying that because I don't want to hang out with her that much. She's the kind of girl that has a billion different guy friends and no boyfriend and I figure she will be wasting my time and what not.

Now I know how girls feel when a guy that they aren't interested in asks them out :crackup:

Any good excuses on how to get out of this? I don't want to be a prick and tell her I don't want to or just stand her up.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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muscleman

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Standing her up = being a prick.
Telling her you'd rather not = being a man.

You can always come up with an excuse to save your ego as well, whichever works for you (women always have excuses .. they never say "no I just don't want to"). Just be tactful, but don't lead her to assume you'll hang out and then flake. That's weak.
 

Krak

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Yeah your right. I'll just straight up tell her I don't want to when she calls me.
 
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