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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't want to "hang out" with this girl

Krak

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So there was this girl that I was seeing a few months ago and I ended up not liking her that much, so I stopped talking to her. I ended up talking to her again on Thursday and the conversation pretty much goes like this:

HB: Hey guess what!?
Me: what?
HB: I'm done with school, we can hang out now!
Me: thats cool but I'm not done till June, don't know if I'll have time
HB: oh, well you should just drop out so we can hang out
Me: Nah, I'm pretty sure school is more important but I might have some free time on Monday night.
HB: blah blah blah, I'm free after 8.
Me: ok, talk to you later

So now I'm regretting saying that because I don't want to hang out with her that much. She's the kind of girl that has a billion different guy friends and no boyfriend and I figure she will be wasting my time and what not.

Now I know how girls feel when a guy that they aren't interested in asks them out :crackup:

Any good excuses on how to get out of this? I don't want to be a prick and tell her I don't want to or just stand her up.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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muscleman

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Standing her up = being a prick.
Telling her you'd rather not = being a man.

You can always come up with an excuse to save your ego as well, whichever works for you (women always have excuses .. they never say "no I just don't want to"). Just be tactful, but don't lead her to assume you'll hang out and then flake. That's weak.
 

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Yeah your right. I'll just straight up tell her I don't want to when she calls me.
 
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