Don't wanna f*ck up tommorow - advice on this

[TheGambino]

So I decided to sign up for the Herbalife 90 day challenge. My friend did it and changed from out of shape to shredded. It's not only the products I'm signing up for but the community and motivation that comes with it. I also learn a lot about nutrition, training and food. But my post is not about Herbalife, let's drop that right now.

This girl is part of the community, she knows me and my old friends but we never hung out or talked, she just knows who we are. At the end of the last session last week she stayed around and waited until I was done with my conversation with my coach and approached us. She says ''Hey aren't you *TheGambino?'' ''You was friends with *dudu and *dudu and the whole group right?''

So I told her yes but we went our own ways. She also worked for a company, my sister owns that company.

We had a chit chat and my coach told us that we could car pool to the community every week since she lives nearby me. I told her that's a great idea and asked for her number. She gave me her number smiled and left. One day later she adds me on facebook. I waited a week on purpose to text her and we are set up for tommorow at 7 to drive to the community session.

This girl is obviousley fit, great body and she respects my friend and me. Ofcourse I would like to lay her but since were both part of the community and we set up to drive together to the community every week I want to play this smart.

Tommorow I will be like 40minutes in the car with her to drive there and another 40 minutes back.

I am going to ask her lots of questions and get to know her. Should I push for a date later this week in the ambiance of her motivation for the community and discuss plans to get clients and training or ask her out in a ''date'' way, drinks and fun. I don't want to push her away and get awkward situations when we see eachother every week after tommorow.

All tips are more then welcome, I value f*cking her more then getting a friend based community partner because I already have that with my coach and other guys. I could also push for a appointment to talk about the community AND get to know her and then have fun and try to escalate.

Negative people around her that going to be judgemental please don't react. Positive members that want to help and actually post helpfull comments please give me your thoughts.

Thanks bro's

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Congrats on the 90 day challenge. Definitely report back on your own personal results.

I find it odd that your coach volunteered for you to drive her to sessions. He already put her on a pedastal for you. Of course she's going to be friendly and add you on FB, she's getting free rides!

If you don't want it to get akward then just flirt & be friendly, she probably has some hot friends you could hook up with.

 

[BeExcellent]

At least the first 2 round trips be friendly and get to know her. This is a patience play. Build rapport & trust. If something regarding relationship status or past comes up then you can ask her some situational questions (use a friend's situation as an example) and get her feedback.

This will tell you a lot about who she is and what her values are. Once you get to know her a bit after a couple of round trips see if you feel like asking her to drinks or an activity or coffee if you think the rapport is there.

This sets up nicely for you but be prepared to share some about yourself too. It builds her trust. Some shjtty funny sprinkled in is also good...see how she reacts to that.

After several trips see if you can compare abs. Or on the first trip take "before" pictures (better yet get her to take them). Then she can photograph your progress as you go.

Instant conversation topics, etc. With some authenticity and some rapport you should do fine, just wait until after the first round trip or two to make a move. Let her wonder if YOU are available to her.

 

[marmel75]

Wanting not to fvck up means you've already fvcked up because you overly invested in the outcome.

 

[pyros]

I think you should forget about fvcking her, for now.

Just talk to her, be fun, tease her etc and see how she reacts and how she behaves. If after a few rides she seems into you then you ask her out via text another time. If however you see that she doesnt seem into you you dont ask her out.

The idea is to wait a bit to see if she likes you, and see IF YOU LIKE HER, because if you dont do this and you go shotgun mode, you will end up making a wrong move and she will think you're a creep.
Just wait to see if you like her (besides her body) and see if she gets wet when she sees you or not, and if she's single.

 

[The Duke]

I'd keep it fun and flirty, raise her temperature slowly.