This is from my own experience. This is a great community that we have here. I definitely learned a lot and I want to share some of my own. Some of you may know it and some of you may not. What you need to know and should always put in your mind is that chicks will "NEVER" make the first move. At least you should "NEVER" expect them to. Women won't just spread their legs open and ask you to do anything that you've been wanting to do. BUT that doesn't mean that they don't want you to. My girlfriend didn't ask for my phone number, I did. My girlfriend didn't ask me out, I did. My girlfriend didn't make the first move when we first kissed, I did. My girlfriend didn't offer to s*ck my d*ck, I told her to. My girlfriend didn't ask me to f*ck her silly on her bed. I made my move. I made her horny as hell and carried her into her room. Don't "EVER" expect chicks to make the first move. That's almost a law right there. Guys have ****s and girls have vagina. That's just the way it is. So next time you want something to happen, PLEASE!...don't wait cuz it'll never come!~
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Don't wait cuz it'll never come!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Kev07
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Not always.
i have a friend that has been with three girls(that i knwo of anyway) and EVERY one of those three came onto him (coworker that is older and has a boyfriend just started calling him out of nowhere, junior at our school that is friends with one of his friends, he doesn't even know her, she just called him(i don't know how she got his number) and asked him on a date, and this another coworker that thought he was cute and flirts with him at work)
it's also funny because, he's been trying real hard with other girls but he has never been successful with girls that he hits on. strange guy.
but anyways, i wouldn't count on girls coming to you, when you can have so many chances going to girls.
i have a friend that has been with three girls(that i knwo of anyway) and EVERY one of those three came onto him (coworker that is older and has a boyfriend just started calling him out of nowhere, junior at our school that is friends with one of his friends, he doesn't even know her, she just called him(i don't know how she got his number) and asked him on a date, and this another coworker that thought he was cute and flirts with him at work)
it's also funny because, he's been trying real hard with other girls but he has never been successful with girls that he hits on. strange guy.
but anyways, i wouldn't count on girls coming to you, when you can have so many chances going to girls.
once i was drunk on a varanda, when my best friends gf sits on my lap and starts kissing me(my first kiss). She then proseeds to take out my c0ck.
Actually, all my female experiances before sosuave were initeated by the chick. Even dates! I'm just talking to my date when she dives in and eats my head!
I take the train to work and I have had 3 chicks ask for my number.
I'm not very attractive. got pimples and sh!t. I think I just seem unthreatining and happy. I do have some muscils tho.
I came here to grow some balls. half way there.
Actually, all my female experiances before sosuave were initeated by the chick. Even dates! I'm just talking to my date when she dives in and eats my head!
I take the train to work and I have had 3 chicks ask for my number.
I'm not very attractive. got pimples and sh!t. I think I just seem unthreatining and happy. I do have some muscils tho.
I came here to grow some balls. half way there.
If u are good looking, muscular, social and funny girls will come to u. Mine almost raped me and i didn't do anything to get her. Her friends want me too, maybe i let them borrow me. I used to be afc but slowly got my sh1t together. Be the man Pook used to talk about and women will come to u and make their moves. It's sick easy. But yeah, it's better not to expect this to happen and do some work urself 
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SkillzthatKillz
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True very true! Good tip.
However, and I can’t speak for every one, but when im at a club for example, I wont make a move till a girl gives me some kind of a sign ( dancing very close, touching, eye contact smile.). So if you think about it women do make the first move. It’s our job to move in for the catch. Back in my afc days, which im at the tail end of now, I look back and just shake my head at how many signals I got, and did nothing.
Don’t be like that, I’m not one to give advice here, but I agree, make the first move anyway, if a girl likes you she will make it easy for you to catch her.
However, and I can’t speak for every one, but when im at a club for example, I wont make a move till a girl gives me some kind of a sign ( dancing very close, touching, eye contact smile.). So if you think about it women do make the first move. It’s our job to move in for the catch. Back in my afc days, which im at the tail end of now, I look back and just shake my head at how many signals I got, and did nothing.
Don’t be like that, I’m not one to give advice here, but I agree, make the first move anyway, if a girl likes you she will make it easy for you to catch her.
They will come to you, but they won't actually ask you to f*ck them.LionOne said:If u are good looking, muscular, social and funny girls will come to u. Mine almost raped me and i didn't do anything to get her. Her friends want me too, maybe i let them borrow me. I used to be afc but slowly got my sh1t together. Be the man Pook used to talk about and women will come to u and make their moves. It's sick easy. But yeah, it's better not to expect this to happen and do some work urself
I had girls grab my ass in clubs to let me know I want them, but they won't go beyond that unless i start showing initiative.
Yep, one came and talked to me when I was eating alone. Then I'm like, "OK I gtg, hope I see you again sometime" shes like whats your number. And she never stopped texting me.Deus ex Pianoforte said:
She wouldn't have gone up to some really hot dude, because of the same reason AFC's don't approach HB10's.
She was about a 6. I'd say I'm about a 7
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Holy ****, I had a 26 year old woman make the first move on me once. I'm 21 btw. I was laying in bed with her and she says, "you can take your clothes off now. I was like, "uhh, yeah ok." lol. I was shocked. So, I took my clothes off and then, she just reaches down and grabs my cvck under the cover lol. So, she was pretty agressive. They do make the first move....sometimes.
qweretyuiopas
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So, you only got 1 ball now? That must look weird when you are getting head.wolf116 said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.