"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't wait cuz it'll never come!

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This is from my own experience. This is a great community that we have here. I definitely learned a lot and I want to share some of my own. Some of you may know it and some of you may not. What you need to know and should always put in your mind is that chicks will "NEVER" make the first move. At least you should "NEVER" expect them to. Women won't just spread their legs open and ask you to do anything that you've been wanting to do. BUT that doesn't mean that they don't want you to. My girlfriend didn't ask for my phone number, I did. My girlfriend didn't ask me out, I did. My girlfriend didn't make the first move when we first kissed, I did. My girlfriend didn't offer to s*ck my d*ck, I told her to. My girlfriend didn't ask me to f*ck her silly on her bed. I made my move. I made her horny as hell and carried her into her room. Don't "EVER" expect chicks to make the first move. That's almost a law right there. Guys have ****s and girls have vagina. That's just the way it is. So next time you want something to happen, PLEASE!...don't wait cuz it'll never come!~
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've had girls ask for my number and ask me to f0ck them. Maybe it'll never come for you guys.
 

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Not always.

i have a friend that has been with three girls(that i knwo of anyway) and EVERY one of those three came onto him (coworker that is older and has a boyfriend just started calling him out of nowhere, junior at our school that is friends with one of his friends, he doesn't even know her, she just called him(i don't know how she got his number) and asked him on a date, and this another coworker that thought he was cute and flirts with him at work)

it's also funny because, he's been trying real hard with other girls but he has never been successful with girls that he hits on. strange guy.

but anyways, i wouldn't count on girls coming to you, when you can have so many chances going to girls.
 

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once i was drunk on a varanda, when my best friends gf sits on my lap and starts kissing me(my first kiss). She then proseeds to take out my c0ck.

Actually, all my female experiances before sosuave were initeated by the chick. Even dates! I'm just talking to my date when she dives in and eats my head!

I take the train to work and I have had 3 chicks ask for my number.

I'm not very attractive. got pimples and sh!t. I think I just seem unthreatining and happy. I do have some muscils tho.

I came here to grow some balls. half way there.
 

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If u are good looking, muscular, social and funny girls will come to u. Mine almost raped me and i didn't do anything to get her. Her friends want me too, maybe i let them borrow me. I used to be afc but slowly got my sh1t together. Be the man Pook used to talk about and women will come to u and make their moves. It's sick easy. But yeah, it's better not to expect this to happen and do some work urself ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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True very true! Good tip.

However, and I can’t speak for every one, but when im at a club for example, I wont make a move till a girl gives me some kind of a sign ( dancing very close, touching, eye contact smile.). So if you think about it women do make the first move. It’s our job to move in for the catch. Back in my afc days, which im at the tail end of now, I look back and just shake my head at how many signals I got, and did nothing.

Don’t be like that, I’m not one to give advice here, but I agree, make the first move anyway, if a girl likes you she will make it easy for you to catch her.
 

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LionOne said:
If u are good looking, muscular, social and funny girls will come to u. Mine almost raped me and i didn't do anything to get her. Her friends want me too, maybe i let them borrow me. I used to be afc but slowly got my sh1t together. Be the man Pook used to talk about and women will come to u and make their moves. It's sick easy. But yeah, it's better not to expect this to happen and do some work urself ;)
They will come to you, but they won't actually ask you to f*ck them.

I had girls grab my ass in clubs to let me know I want them, but they won't go beyond that unless i start showing initiative.
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
So you aren't very attractive and chicks ask for your number, huh?

I'm shocked. :yawn:
Yep, one came and talked to me when I was eating alone. Then I'm like, "OK I gtg, hope I see you again sometime" shes like whats your number. And she never stopped texting me.

She wouldn't have gone up to some really hot dude, because of the same reason AFC's don't approach HB10's.

She was about a 6. I'd say I'm about a 7
 

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Babnik said:
They will come to you, but they won't actually ask you to f*ck them.

I had girls grab my ass in clubs to let me know I want them, but they won't go beyond that unless i start showing initiative.
Well if flopping you d!ck out of your pants without saying a word is not asking for it. I just don't know what is.
 

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wolf116 said:
Well if flopping you d!ck out of your pants without saying a word is not asking for it. I just don't know what is.
I know quite a few guys who are like 25+ and f*cked so many girls and they said it happens but RARELY. You can't just rely on that. If you do, you miss on many girls.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Holy ****, I had a 26 year old woman make the first move on me once. I'm 21 btw. I was laying in bed with her and she says, "you can take your clothes off now. I was like, "uhh, yeah ok." lol. I was shocked. So, I took my clothes off and then, she just reaches down and grabs my cvck under the cover lol. So, she was pretty agressive. They do make the first move....sometimes.
 

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Especially tom boys. When I used to like tom boys, I had a hard time being the man in the relationship.
 

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My mates a total awkward, depserate, quiet, shy, pvssy afc. This really hot chick came onto him and now they are going out and she really likes him.

Just goes against averything I know man. I'm confused.
 

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hahaha. It's true, sort of anyway.

I had a dirt bike accident where I ruptured one. Now it's a lot smaller than the other. Girls don't mind, it's a good story.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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da_hunter said:
I've had girls ask for my number and ask me to f0ck them. Maybe it'll never come for you guys.
same
 

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I wonder if this applies if a girl is giving you no IOI whatsoever. Like, she is around but you never catch her looking at you or anything.

Could she still possibly want you and give no signs?
 
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